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What I meant to write and Never Could.

I started this blog to talk a lot about the word “Experience”, but I have gone away. Let me be where I need to be.

First, you would have to be some insane or crazy person to keep talking about  something that’s obvious to everyone. Believe it or not, all my friends know what I talk about the most. It’s experience.

Life is an Experience. Life is an Experience. Life is an Experience.

Do you feel like throwing up ? Sorry. I just love those Four words.

Let me consider, who you are… No, I am not a fortune teller.

You are depressed of all the things that is going on in your life. You don’t have job. You can’t find one. Your married life sucks. You have kids who scream back at you for no reasons. You want to go out, but you can’t because of your wife won’t let you. Your friends have never returned the money you gave them. Every time you look in the mirror, you try hard not to notice growing wrinkles. When someone looks down, you believe they are looking at the fading colors of your shoes. You just ordered bunches of grocery, but you feel like you lost your money. You went to a restaurant, well, once in a blue moon, and the service was terrible, but you left a hefty tips instead of complaining. The road to home looked beautiful, but today it’s rainy and a  muddy. All your friends have a wonderful life, many with masters degree. You wish you had never married. You always ask god why on earth does it have to be for you?

There are lots of people out there who have even tougher life than yours. Think about that. But just because others have a bad life, is never a valid reason to feel good either. Don’t you wish they too have a better life ? Bad wishes that makes you feel good aren’t good.

Are you confused ? Don’t worry. I used to. I might be considering everything false about you. You are probably not married. Have a wonderful life. You never have a single problem to worry about. But do you ever wonder you will always remains the same ? Would you shed tears when things go bad ? Are you 100% sure the girl you love is loving you unconditionally ? Are you sure you can always afford mortgage on your home ? Does the stock market ever scare you ? No ? then why on earth are you here ?

My mantra is simple but kind of hard to understand at first though.

“Life is an Experience”

“Life is an Experience”

“Life is an Experience”

and

“Life is an Experience”

Did you get it ? No ?

Well, it took me  a while to understand what it meant. I won’t lie to you that I I have a good memory, but this blog does help me remember my mantra every now and then. Specially when I have bad times, I wish I was on the Internet, reading/writing something like this.

Argue with me, why experience things ?

Well, what would be your answer to the question, Why did God created You ?

If you are still skeptical to my term which I will repeat here as many times as I can, here… more..

Life is an Experience. Life is an Experience.

Don’t worry. I will take you with me to experience a whole lot of things as we go, but don’t ever take my mantra negatively like Experiencing bad stuff (you know what I mean so I am not going to write all the bad things) that only shortens your life to Experience more. The point here is, do all the things that enhances your life to Experience more. When bad things happen to you, just remember that you are simply experiencing those.

A while back there was a great discussion on TV about “What happens when you die ?” I was laughing that time,  dude, my topic isn’t really strange.  I write about Experience. When you die, you simply leave your body, the ENERGY that created you, the ENERGY that is sum of you, will live on.

But you will have that Experience which has to be Experienced by anyone. Think about it, everyone comes to this world to Experience stuff, then one day, they have to pass away. Aren’t we all equal in one way ? – Experience. But how on earth can I just say that I know all the answers. What do I know ? I am just like you. I could be wrong.

My friends think I’m crazy. But If everyone in this world is experiencing stuff and nobody has said “Life is an Experience” as the mantra, than I must be soooooooooooooo unique. I love it.

Do you ever look at those tiny ants ? Where ? You just found them outside your home near your front yard. Some of those are still walking because you missed a step. Don’t you know they have tiny hearts that is pumping blood too. And look at those birds, flying here and there, and yet, you know, the sky is about to fall down, for, not so far a way there is the thunder roaming something you hate. You poor soul inside your comfortable home can’t even take the word “Experience”, aren’t everyone and everything experiencing another ?  The next-door farmer is happy that it is raining now.

Let us try and see if it works. I’m assuming you are depressed. If you can, go see your doctor, but you can still try this:

(1) Tell me the experience you had with your morning coffee ? Did you take the time to taste, see color, and feel the aroma.

(2) After you wake up in the morning, do you ever thank Lord that he gave you one more day. Perhaps one more day to experience things.

(3) When you bite that apple, do you experience biting it again ? Do you hear that crushing sound you make ? Please don’t laugh. To understand what I mean by EXPERIENCE, you have to be willing to experience fully. There are infinite ways to count your experiences today. Put a smile on your face right now. If you are like many of us who compare things, it’s time to say good bye to comparison. Everyone has unique life, ups and downs. Yours is yours. The other happy ones don’t know expect you. They too are experiencing but you only know. Experience, Experience, and expereince. <- There, that one I left as is to feel bad-spelling.  LOL !!  See what I mean ? Experience.

(4) When you are sad and low, remind yourself, you are simply experiencing it and no more, for there are enough experiences to be had before we say good bye.

Well, we are now coming to the end of this post.

If you feel like I have wasted your time.  I won’t say sorry.

because … now experience feeling like someone just stole your time.

don’t be mad, just laugh!

I’ll leave you with two questions to ponder:

(a) How do we taste things ?

(b) How do we taste life ?